The readings for Pentecost 16 are taken from Genesis 50:15-21; Romans 14:1-12; and Matthew 18:21-35.
Let this summary be governed by the Gospel lesson. The extending of grace to others is not a sideline or some neglected, distasteful obligation for Christians. It is THE reason God provides for our lives in this world. We are ambassadors for Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God—the means of grace. So the connection between lessons is bright and clear.
In Genesis, Joseph relieves his brothers’ fear of revenge by assuring them of grace. Joseph makes two statements fundamental to our consciousness: “Am I in the place of God?” and “You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good.”
Paul reminds the Romans to let consideration for the well-being of others direct our thoughts, words, and conduct. Some people are so liberal in the way they live or raise their children that others are provoked. Others are so restrictive in their ways that those more liberal voice biting criticisms. But our regenerate souls are all the same, living in the grace, wisdom, and way of the Lord and this is the consciousness that is always seeking what is best for others, soul and body, for time and eternity.
Matthew records how Peter asked a question that every human nature wants an answer to: how many times do I have to forgive another person (because my self-righteousness, self-pity, and self-centeredness is impatient and irritated by others and would like to be rid of them such as they are)? This parable needs no explanation. It only needs to be on our minds and in our hearts, even as we seek to love others who are so loved by the Lord Jesus.